Raising your kids to be smart is easier than you think

You can raise your children to be smart without much effort. Everyone every parent I knew just about everyone I knew growing up they all wanted the same thing. They wanted their children to be the smartest on their block! They wanted their children to be smarter than all of their peers. They want their children to make the honor role in high school, then in college to graduate Cum laude.

There is nothing wrong with wanting the best for your child . We all want our children to do great and reach for the sky and never look back and keep on keeping on and be successful as ever. The problem is these same parents who want all this from their children feel hurt when their child does not turn out smart. They somehow feel as though it is their entire fault for not doing enough. They feel guilty for not doing enough. Some of them do not know what to do. Jealousy starts to creep in when they find out your child’s peers are doing better in school, are not struggling with the material and do not need a tutor to know what they are looking at.

I have got good news for you. You can raise your son or daughter to be smart. Doing so does not mean you are conceited or selfish or anything so, do not buy into that. The fact of the matter is we should love our children regardless how ever they turn out. One fact you should know is no one just turns out anyway somehow. You turn out how your parents raise and molded you.

Yes you have the opportunity to wire and mold your child’s brain and raise them to be smart.I wrote the book Raised Smart that basically details all of that  and more in a nutshell here is what you need to do if you do not have the book yet.

Talk to them

Children’s minds are wondering all over the place. They need some guidance; they need answers to their questions on life and what is happening. They see a lot with their precious eyes at a fast alarming pace. You have to be their for them to talk to them to tell them what they are seeing so they can register it in their brain and go on to the next thing.

Listen to them

Talking to them is great. Teaching them life’s lessons is even greater. You also have to be a good listener. Make sure you are there for your child when they have something on their minds they want something to talk about. They look up to you for the answers. You should be the one who gives that answer to them and always listen to them. Remember kids are our future you should strive to be the best you can be for them always.

Let them be free.

The whole Montessori way is the right way. I applaud Maria Montessori. Your number one priority should be to let your child be free. Let them play by them selves ultimately they will learn on their own terms their own time. They need to learn by themselves and make mistakes and learn from their mistakes. The bottom line is they need to fall a few times before they get back up . Once this happens in solidarity play they will be teaching themselves to solve problems and be independent.

There you have it just a few excerpts from the book Raised Smart remember you too can have a smart child it is not as hard as you think it is believe me I have done it. Just remember one thing smart children are not born smart they are raised smart.

If you like to know more about the book and start implementing it today check it out here.